Gender reveal invitations with a guess in every RSVP

Send the reveal invite by text or the family group chat. Each household answers for everyone in it, kids included, and can add a boy-or-girl guess with the reply. No guest accounts, no ads.

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Example headcountFour households · one gender reveal

Grandma & Grandpa Rivera
Rosa, Luis
2 attending
Team girl!
The Lees
Sam, Jen, Max
Maybe
Uncle Dan
Dan
No reply
The Parks
Mia, Joon, Ella
3 attending
Team boy, and we're bringing sparklers

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How do you send gender reveal invitations online?

Create the event, add each household, and send each one its own link by text or the family chat. Guests reply in two taps with no account and can add a boy-or-girl guess with their RSVP. Your dashboard shows who's coming and every guess. It's free, with no ads.

A reveal party is small, quick, and full of family

Gender reveals usually come together in a few weeks: grandparents, siblings, close friends, and their kids, in a backyard or a park. The list is short, but you still need to know how many cousins are coming.

Add each household with the people you're inviting and send that household its own link, or post the event's shared link in the family chat, where anyone who opens it can add their name and reply.

Use the free RSVP question to ask for a guess. Every household's prediction lands in one list, ready to read out before the cake is cut.

What goes wrong with reveal RSVPs

Replies scatter: A reveal often comes together in two or three weeks, and answers trickle in by text, chat, and phone call.
Kids go uncounted: “We'll come” rarely says how many kids, and the cupcakes come up short.
Guesses get buried: Everyone's boy-or-girl prediction disappears up the group chat long before the party.
Two hosts, two counts: You and your partner each hear different answers from different sides of the family.

Three steps from invite to headcount

It works the way your family already talks: by text and group chat.

Add the guest list by household
Add each household with the people you're inviting, kids included. Set whether extra guests are welcome.
Send each household its link
Text it or drop it in the family chat. Guests tap Yes, No, or Maybe for each person and add their guess. No account, no app.
Watch the count and the votes
Your dashboard shows who's coming, who's a maybe, and every guess. Copy a nudge for each household that hasn't answered and send it yourself.

Gender reveal designs

Try balloons, confetti, or any other painted design free; guests see it once the event has Plus ($12).

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Made for parents-to-be

Household replies, a guess with every RSVP, and a guest list you can reuse. No guest accounts.

Every guess in one list: Each household's answer to your question sits next to its reply, so tallying the votes takes a minute.
Kids counted: Name the kids you're inviting, and each gets a yes or no in your count. Allow extra guests, and a household can add a child to its reply.
Reuse the list for the shower: Start the baby shower from the reveal's guest list. The new event gets fresh links and a fresh count.

Ask for a guess

Add an optional question guests answer with their RSVP. Asking for a boy-or-girl guess gives you a tally to read out at the reveal.

One RSVP question is free. Families can answer or skip it.

Boy or girl? Cast your guess!

Optional

A family's answer

Girl! And she'll have her dad's curls.

Paste this in the family group chat

The family chat is where the news already spreads. Use it to announce the reveal, then let each household's link collect the reply.

Boy or girl? We're finding out on [date] at [place], and we want you there! Tap your link to RSVP for your household and cast your guess. Please reply by [date], no account needed.

Questions

Common questions about gender reveal invitations.

Are these gender reveal invitations free?

Yes. Hejmo is free for unlimited events, with RSVP tracking, a private link per household, nudges, co-hosts, and one RSVP question. There are no ads on the invite. Plus is optional: $12 for one event adds invitation styles, illustrated covers or your own cover photo, a custom link, a custom RSVP confirmation, and up to five RSVP questions.

Can guests vote boy or girl?

Yes. Use the free RSVP question to ask for a guess. Each household's answer shows next to its reply, so you can tally the votes before the reveal. With Plus you can ask up to five questions.

Can I post one link in the family chat?

Yes. The event's shared link lets anyone who opens it add their name and reply. Household links work better when you want each family's kids counted under the right name.

Can I reuse the guest list for the baby shower?

Yes. Reuse the guest list in a new event, and every household gets a fresh link. Old answers don't carry over.

Do guests need an app or an account?

No. The link opens in any phone browser, and guests reply in two taps.

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