Paperless Post alternative for simple family RSVPs
Choose Hejmo when a quick setup, a clear family headcount, and private links matter most. Choose Paperless Post when a stationery-style design comes first.
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Hejmo
Hejmo puts the headcount first: set up in minutes, send each family a private link, and guests answer in two taps without an account.
Best for
- Hosts who want to set up and share in minutes
- Family events where one person answers for the household
- Private links with no extra steps for guests
Consider other tools for
- Perfecting the design before anything else
- Ticketed events and public registration
- Conference registration and large-event management
Paperless Post
Paperless Post offers beautiful, stationery-style designs for formal and casual events. Hejmo focuses on the reply: one private link per family, two-tap answers on a phone, and a live headcount.
Strengths
- Stationery-style designs
- Designer and brand collaborations
- Well suited to formal events
Tradeoffs
- Cost grows with premium designs and guest count
- Setup starts with choosing a design
- Family RSVPs aren't the main model
Feature comparison
| Feature | Hejmo | Paperless Post |
|---|---|---|
| Family and household RSVPs | Yes | Limited |
| Guests RSVP without an account | Yes | Varies |
| Chat preview with event details | Yes | Varies |
| Private by default, no public guest list | Yes | Varies |
| Co-hosts | Yes | Yes |
Questions
Is Hejmo good for formal events?
For relaxed family gatherings, yes. The free invite is clean and simple, and Plus ($12 per event) adds invitation styles, a cover photo, a custom link, a custom RSVP confirmation, and up to five RSVP questions. For a wedding-style stationery suite, Paperless Post is the better fit.
Do guests need an account?
No. Guests answer in two taps with no account or login.
Can I change my custom link later?
Yes. On a Plus event, you can change your custom link up to three times after you first set it, and links you've already shared keep working.
Does Hejmo show ads?
No. Hejmo is free for unlimited events and never shows ads. Guests see a small Hejmo mark and an invitation to create their own event.
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